Her is the thing.. im a butch female and in my mind i was like jackie chan?

because im 200 lbs and i have a 3 degree black belt and ..men dont respect me .. so the other night i picked a fight with a skinny little man.. and when we got into a fight he beat me up and slapped me around like a bag of patatos.. and knock me out with a few punches.. now infront of all the women that liked ..it makes me look bad.. not the mascule butch they thought i was.. what should i do?